Throughout our lives, the longing for a significant other starts growing. Everyone wants to have that perfect relationship with the one person they love but sometimes things just don’t work out as planned which could be caused by numerous things. There are many aspects that play into having the ‘perfect’ relationship such as having trust, respect, communication especially verbal, and having similar objectives which will all be discussed as you read throughout this essay. There are four main aspects and qualities of strong relationships that will help you in having a long lasting, successful relationship. They are 1) similarities-things you share in common with your significant other 2) Communication 3) respect 4) most importantly trust.
The first block into having a good relationship with your other would be similarities you may have with that other person. Having the same similarities will tend to bring seemingly two very different people together. When people are able to work together in achieving the same goal/goals, it can be seen as those two people as being together since they worked together to achieve something they both might really want, therefore they are now connected in some way. Say for example two young people wanna have a future together living happily ever after; they both want the same thing, to have a future together. That’d mainly be what their relationship among other things would be about.
The second block into having a good relationship would be communication. Communication is so so important in having a good relationship. Most relationships encountered are based on love which needs to be verbally said. Through communication feelings need to be expressed or said along with sharing your ideas and expectations. Information like one’s frustrations, concerns, and needs need to be portrayed or conveyed through communication. Without communication, relationships tend to fall apart due to the fact that you won’t discuss problems and concerns you may have with your partner.
The third block and fourth block into having a good relationship would be both trust and respect. Respect- a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements. Same goes for trust, trust-firm belief in reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something. When it comes down to having a good relationship, it’s not just based off of one thing or aspect but based off of multiple things which are, 1) similarities, 2) communication, 3) respect, and 4) trust.
With being in a relationship, both partners have to do the same amount of work and work together. relationships mainly revolve around trust, patience, and focus. It’s all worth it in the end having a happy, healthy, successful relationship with the significant other you love. It is said that people tend to live longer having another person they can love in their life. Those are the relationships that require happy and good relationships. Might seem like a lot to put into a relationship but trust me it’s so worth it in the end.