“Roots are not in landscape or a country, or a people, they are inside you” - Isabel Allende
In the novel And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini, the author illustrates that characters live inside their own dreamland, driven by narrow-minded wants, which impact their decisions. Each character in the novel includes a contention inside themselves that drives them to take activities and this prompts the reliance on others to settle it. The logical inconsistencies made with the characters identities are illustrative of these contentions. The reason for their misery and hardships attempted to escape from it.
Firstly, self-image is the psychological picture, for the most part of a kind that was to change, that portrays not just points of interest that are conceivably accessible to target examination by others (stature, weight, hair shading, and so forth), yet in addition things that have been learned by that individual about themselves, either from individual encounters or by disguising the judgments of others “Pari watched maman as she murmured playfully, giggled at Julien’s joke, tilted her head and absently twirled a lock of her hair. She marveled again at how young and beautiful Maman was. Has she had any beauty it was of a more modest earthbound sort”. Pari in this quote starts to realize she does not look like her parents Nila and Suleiman. Pari used to think that her mom was prettier than herself. This shows how she is trying to identify herself. Nila was different from Pari she had long black hair and different features. Pari started to question herself about why she had little resemblance to her mother. Yet she started to think about her father and realizes that she does not resemble her father as well but she had little resemblance. As a person Pari was a simple girl, Pari was not confident about herself. Pari and Nila were opposite types of people.
Secondly, self-esteem is frequently observed as an identity attribute, which implies that it has a tendency to be steady and persevering. In the article the writer talks about self-esteem and self-identity, self-esteem effects can be measured in different aspects such as success, confidence etc. In the novel, Pari confidence hypothesis incorporating into low confidence. Since she feels that she was not wonderful and had the certainty of her physical appearance. Low confidence can cause the individual feels not the certainty with herself, contrast herself with others, nervousness, dread to do something, touchy etc. Pari believes that she was not delightful. Par was far excellent from her mother. She feels that her mom has everything that she does not have in herself as in appearance. Moreover, she was kicked out of the chance to analyze herself to her mom. It made her feels not sure about herself. She believes that her appearance is regular and not fascinating at all than her mom. People with low self-esteem always thinks about her fault. She does not think about excess. She focuses on her fault than her excess. It happens to Pari when she looks at herself, sometimes she walks to her mother bedroom to look at the long mirror and look at her body. She mentions her fails in her body. She is too tall, too unshape, too utilitarian. And she thinks that she does not have her mother bewitching curves. Sometimes, she walks to her mother bedroom undress and lay on the bed where she knew Maman and Julien made love. She does not feel happy with herself. Pari likes to compare her beauty to her mother. And it makes her feels not confident in herself. Lastly, Ideal Self is a glorified variant of yourself made out of what you have gained from your background, the requests of society, and what you appreciate in your good examples.
Ideal Self of accomplishment, objective, and dream of the individual. Her accomplishment is the point at which she turns into the most youthful educator in the division. She is one of two lady educator in her specialization. When she was youthful she prefers considering mathematic then she continuous her examinations on mathematic too until the point when she gets Ph.D. at that point she turns into the educator in the one of the College in Lyon, France She will probably visit her country in Afghanistan. She needs to keep in mind her cherished recollections so she needs to visit her country in Afghanistan. She has the arrangement to visit it when she breaks from her PhD also, her significant other Eric had an occasion. When she nearly visits her country, furthermore, Eric is occupied search for about data for the excursion, she was pregnant. Furthermore, she chooses to drop her intend to go to Afghanistan. Furthermore, her fantasy is looking through her own personality, when she understood that she is not quite the same as her mom and her dad from their physical appearance, at that point she ponders whether she is s natural group of her guardians. At that point, she needs to know her own character. There are numerous reasons why she needs to know her own character; her mental self-view is not quite the same as her folks; when she grows up she feels like something missing on her heart, the non-appearance of something or somebody, major to her own particular presence; she ever gets some information about her youth and her past, be that as it may, her mom does not give her the best answer, before her mom suicide, her mother said that she takes a gander at her like stranger in her eyes.
In Conclusion, in the novel And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini the author illustrates that characters live inside their own dreamland, driven by narrowly-minded wants, which impact their decisions. Each character in the novel includes a contention inside themselves that drives them to take activities and this prompts the reliance on others to settle it. Besides, the logical inconsistencies made with the characters identities are illustrative of these contentions. The reason for their misery and hardships attempted to escape from it.